Welcome to the Digital Dragonfly!

Our Purpose

The ‘Dragonfly’ symbolises the evolution of self, mental and emotional maturity, understanding the deeper meaning of life and most importantly TRANSFORMATION.  We are The Digital Dragonfly and our dream as digital entrepreneurs is to see as many people in this world, from every walk of life, rediscover themselves and learn how to unlock their true potential.  To inspire and guide others to find their purpose, regain mental, physical, spiritual and financial fulfilment.  Too many of us are overwhelmed by the stresses and demands of life in the 21st century, casting a shadow over the joyful experience that life was intended to be.


Do you feel like your soul is being crushed under the heavy weight of working too hard, caring for family members and the never ending cycle of chores and responsibilities?  Maybe you’re a parent doing it tough (like us) playing the tag team of working two full-time jobs, juggling different shifts, taking care of children and their needs, keeping the home fires burning etc, etc and still feeling dissatisfied and riddled with guilt because there’s not enough of you to go around and not enough hours to fit it all in?

Maybe you’re a family struggling on one income and it’s breaking your heart watching your partner nearly kill themselves working so hard to provide for everyone?  Maybe you’re dreading the prospect of returning to work after recently having a baby and secretly long to be able to stay home with your child?

Do you feel overwhelmed and unfulfilled?  Are your relationships suffering?  Does your body hurt?  Is your mental health suffering?  Do you have any ‘me’ time?  Have you somehow ‘lost’ yourself among the stress and chaos of life and almost lost the will to live along the way?

When your alarm goes off in the morning do you wake up bursting for the day to begin?  Or do you just want to bury yourself under the covers feeling exhausted at the thought of yet another groundhog day?  Are you almost at rock bottom?  We hear ya!  It’s soul destroying isn’t it?

It may sound rather dramatic, but the cold, hard truth is so many people in the world today feel like this.  We’ve become caught in the trap of convention and tend to accept “that’s just how life is”.  Akila and I, and millions of others have all been there too – we’ve all felt that pain. But you know on some instinctive level that life is supposed to be FUN right?!  You know that your present moments should be cherished and you want to actually feel present during those precious joyful times, instead of being preoccupied with worry or thoughts of what you must do tomorrow and the next day to keep the wheels turning.  You feel tortured but somewhere deep inside your inner being is trying to remind you that there is a never-ending stream of abundance in this world to satisfy every single human being’s needs and desires?

Pain Motivates Change

Sometimes it’s when you hit rock bottom that you are forced to rethink things.  It turns out that PAIN IS THE PRIMARY MOTIVATION FOR CHANGE.  You know that old saying, “The darkest hour comes before the dawn?”  What if there were opportunities and tools out there which could lead you to thoroughly enjoy every moment of this blessing we call ‘life’?  Open your mind to new possibilities.  What if there was a way to …

  • Break the cycle and live a life where you are not chained to trading time for money, where you can potentially make yourself passive income on your own terms
  • Be time and geographically free, running your business by simply using a laptop
  • Discover your own purpose, enhance your natural gifts and interests and build a thriving business based around your passion
  • Finally have the quality time with your children, family and friends that you’ve always longed for
  • Have the freedom to plan your day to suit you (no more rushing around after work, throwing something together for dinner for the family, flying out the door to take your child to their game, chucking on a load of washing, making lunches for school the next day and falling into bed exhausted!)
  • Get some guilt-free ‘me’ time (you parents know what I’m talking about) to take yourself off for an uninterrupted walk, read a book or get a relaxing massage, meditate or whatever it is that makes you feel good, all the while knowing you are financially sound
  • Decide when YOU want a holiday instead of begging the boss for annual leave when they can’t accommodate the dates you want
  • Improve your mental, physical and spiritual well-being to a point you are just bursting with enthusiasm for life
  • Restore harmonious relationships with your nearest and dearest
  • Create financial and time freedom for the rest of your life
  • Experience the joy of being able to share this opportunity with others and revel in the satisfaction of watching them thrive too

Well take it from us – it CAN be done if you give yourself permission.  Each and every one of us has the power to reclaim our lives and manifest true happiness.


I think we’re all fully aware that there are endless possibilities within this internet age we are so blessed to live in. There truly is so much potential to tap into.  Over the years Akila and I have been acutely aware of this and felt the hunger to explore it further.  But where to start?  We knew very little about the cyber world, nothing about how to advertise to a market – crikey, we didn’t even know what business we wanted to do!

We’re just an average mum and dad with three kids, no fancy qualifications, just a passion for self-improvement and helping others.   But we knew we had more to offer this world and had an overwhelming desire to do SOMETHING – something radical but we didn’t have the tools or the know-how to get started.  We desperately wanted to find a way to make a happier life for ourselves, for our kids but just as importantly, for others in this world.  We ALL deserve the right to live a life of joy and satisfaction without grinding ourselves into the ground.

From this desire, we eventually found ourselves aligned with an amazing entrepreneurial community of like-minded individuals who opened up a path that has changed our world.  SFM provided the expertise required to create a digital lifestyle that fits us.  They provide second-to-none, comprehensive step-by-step training covering every aspect of becoming a digital entrepreneur that any novice can accomplish regardless of current skills or background.  There is 24/7 ongoing professional support and mentorship to assist you on your journey. All of the groundwork has been done by two of the most humble trailblazers in the business – Stuart Ross and Jay Kubassek who gave birth to SFM.  The mentorship and knowledge provided by these two compares to stumbling upon a gold mine. You can also read many inspiring success stories from those already on this journey.  All you need is the drive to commit, take action one step at a time and watch yourself fly!

This is not an ego driven, pushy, hard-sell, multi-level marketing type of business like so many out there. You have total freedom to achieve your own goals in your own time.  The most beautiful thing about this community is EVERYBODY HELPS EACH OTHER!  It is a business opportunity that initially focusses on mastering personal growth and mindset.  This is fundamentally important to your future success, not just in business but in every area of your life.

SFM Business

We at The Digital Dragonfly are committed to holding your hand and guiding you through the process. Committing to this journey has been the best thing we ever did because we’ve experienced personal growth, happiness and success on so many levels.  AND YOU CAN TOO!

Make the first step towards transforming your life by clicking on the button above to learn more about SFM and receive a FREE seven day workshop to listen to at your leisure – obligation free.   If it turns out it’s not for you, that’s totally cool!  You can always unsubscribe – no hard sell here whatsoever.  Please feel free to explore other pages on our website too so that you can get to know us better!  Blessings to you and yours.

Go fly!

Akila and Shelley

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